PinnedMember-onlyFaith, Hope, and Quantum Physics: Words for My Son’s Memorial(My son died in a car accident mid-April, 2023. This is what I shared at his life celebration.) Thank you everyone for sharing your memories of Ben. Now I want to talk about where we go from here. I don’t talk about my faith very often because I believe that…Life4 min readLife4 min read
PinnedMember-onlyThe Holiday Lights Project“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” — Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. The end of the year’s approaching, and it’s tempting to look at whatever’s going on in the news, on social media, or in the…Generosity7 min readGenerosity7 min read
PinnedMember-onlyFive Years of Giving DangerouslyFive years ago, I began a radical experiment that would change my life: I started a for-profit company built on generosity. …Generosity7 min readGenerosity7 min read
Dec 1, 2022Member-onlyKindling LightsConfession time: I broke out the holiday playlist a week before Thanksgiving this year. I usually try to preserve the boundary between Fall and Christmas, but it was dark, I was tired, and I just couldn’t wait any longer to hear David Benoit play “Carol of the Bells.” …Holidays6 min readHolidays6 min read
Published inBetter Programming·Aug 3, 2022Member-onlyWho Cares If It Scales?Rather than optimizing think about how you can get better at innovating — Across the country, in every accelerator, exec team meeting, advisor session, and board meeting, startups are asked the same question: “But how will it scale?” My answer: “Who cares?” Whether you founded your company yesterday or you’ve been growing for years, the problem remains the same: the moment that you…Startup9 min readStartup9 min read
Mar 12, 2022Member-onlyThe Poisonous Myth of HustleWe’ve all heard the story: two brilliant founders have an idea that will change the world. They gather a dedicated group of early employees/stock option holders around them and, through sheer grit, determination, and HUSTLE, they disrupt an industry and become billionaires in the process. …Startup Life7 min readStartup Life7 min read
Dec 7, 2020Member-onlyThe Holiday Lights Project, Take 20202020: what a year, huh? I’m going to try to avoid saying things like, “in times like these,” or, “after a year like this,” but let’s face it: if there were ever a year in which the world needed a lift, this is it. The problem is, I feel like…Holidays6 min readHolidays6 min read
Dec 1, 2019Member-onlyLight Up the Holidays — 2019 Edition"It’s the most wonderful time of the year.” “It’ll be just like a picture print by Currier & Ives.” “In the air there’s a feeling of Christmas Children laughing, people passing Meeting smile after smile And on every street corner you hear Silver bells, silver bells…” Thanksgiving has come and…Christmas4 min readChristmas4 min read
Published inCTO Lunches Blog·Jan 11, 2019Member-onlyThe Codeless CTOA recent conversation among a group of CTOs: “I was a software engineer for 15 years before I became a CTO, and I still make sure that I code at least 20% of the time, even if I have to do it outside of work. Don’t you think that a…Startup10 min readStartup10 min read
Dec 15, 2018Member-onlyIntroverts (Prefer to Remain) AnonymousHello. My name is Jason and I am an introvert. I won’t wait for any applause or a “Hi, Jason,” because I know that my fellow introverts are probably checking their phones and wondering when the meeting will be over. …Introvert6 min readIntrovert6 min read